Last night we went through a reeducation process that worked with the other
children at this stage. We decided to retire to our rooms earlier than normal
and when we told Daniel it was bedtime, he had other plans.
Normally he likes to snuggle, sing some songs and go to bed.
Lately we've had a battle. After a point, it is worth trying something other
than force to get obedience.
We said, "Okay, lights out. Good night!" We turned off the
lights and left him playing alone in the living room. We don't recommend
this if you have a kid who leaves the house or is dangerous when left unattended.
Our little stinker turned on a small lamp so he could see! We thought we
might have lost this round, but soon he came to our bedroom door lower lip
quivering, ready to be tucked in.
All people are the same way when it comes to the Laws of God.
We know we would like what God has to offer, but it seems we would rather
exert our authority and have "our own way." In part, Jesus Christ came to
show us that we have a self-will problem. The Law reveals our sin and Jesus
Christ came to give us relief from sin and direction for life. (Philippians
2:12 - 18)
Listen to what God wants you to
know. It's the best thing for you. In fact, there are actually rewards
for being obedient built right into what God wants for our lives. Listening
to Him, obeying him brings blessings.
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